My first sexual experience with a female was a threesome with my husband. We weren't yet in the swinging lifestyle but were venturing further into uncharted waters of our marriage. Although we had teased about having sex with others, done a little exhibitionism on the webcam, and even played I'll show you mine if you show me yours with friends, we had never actually had physical contact with another person outside of our marital bed.
Alyssa was a pretty blonde who worked with Soccer Dad. I had met her on one occasion at a work related party but we never really talked. While conversation is important to some, the rest of us are happy just to hook up without the messiness of friendship getting in the way. So after some discussion about Alyssa, I convinced Soccer Dad to invite her over.
This article appears in Mar 10-16, 2010.