Yes, the Dildo Whisperer. She gives candid LGBT sex advice on my new favorite radio show, The Derek and Romaine Show, aka DNR. I stumbled onto DNR while flipping through the channels on XM Satellite Radio, whose recent merger with Sirius has yielded up cool stuff like SiriusOutQ, the radio-station equivalent of TV's Here! or Logo, only lots raunchier.
Romaine Patterson's name may be familiar; she's famous for staging the Angel Action counter-protest when Rev. Fred "God Hates Fags" Phelps showed up to picket her friend Matthew Shepard's funeral. Now she's co-hosting DNR, a drive-time show that includes the Dildo Whisperer call-in segment. The sex advice is funny but useful for all orientations, I suspect, and surprisingly frank: I didn't know they could say "snatch-licking" on the radio. FCC, you didn't hear it from me.
Michelangelo Signorile, Frank DeCaro and other highly entertaining queers are also on the SiriusOutQ roster. You can find it at XM 98 and Sirius 109.