The word swinger sounds dirty all by itself.  Add a few dirty secrets and swingers become down right pornographic.

The swinger lifestyle leads itself to all types of uninhibited behavior. Sometimes this include over indulgence of alcohol or drug use. Personally I do not partake in drug use, but I have been with some that do.  Ecstasy seems to be the drug of choice among some swingers.  The drawback of using this drug is that it gets in the way of good old sex.  I prefer everyone to be drug free and in full control of fucking me. A second drug I see used quite often is Viagra. If a man is having sex with multple women and reaching orgasim each time, he is likely using this drug.  Most men are not super human and cannot naturally cum three or four times in a few hours.

Let's be honest, everyone engages in alternative behavior in the bedroom. Most people don't tell anyone of their strange fetishes, let alone include a group of people in the mix.  I've been involved in many situations that have included some interesting aspects of sex.

Gang bangs or orgies are common practice among many swingers. I was involved in one such event at a private club when I experienced fisting for the first time (no, not me!).  The rooms in private clubs are much like high walled cubicles – open at the top.  Everyone was enjoying themselves when women's panties comes flying over the wall. This peaked everyones interest so an invite was made to the young couple soliciting our attention.  The two walked in and he says 'anyone want to see me fist her?' Well of course we do!  During another orgy everyone was laying around the bed and floor, naked and just finished fucking, watching a couple of guys jerking and cumming on a girls face (again, not me!) I am no prude, but ouch and eww!!

Swingers dress in all kinds of crazy themes for parties.  Sexy school girl, masks, lingerie, and body paint are some of the exciting ways we entice and seduce each other. Swinging is a lifestyle that allows people live out fantasies, enjoy feitshes, and experience exciting sex.

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This article appears in Jul 22-28, 2009.