While most men want you to think that they have a large penis; the fact is most men are simply average. I have found that some men will go out of their way to reassure you that their penis is big, huge even. I'm not sure if these guys want you to suddenly scream out "oh my what a big penis" or if they just feel the need to repeatedly speak the words "I have a big penis" to feel better about themselves.
Recently Fisher and Boy from 97X discussed a case (I will call The Penis Murder) currently pending in the United Kingdom about a man who fatally beat a woman over the remark that his penis wasn't big enough for her. The radio conversation went from talking about what happened to have you ever discussed your penis size. While neither Fisher nor Boy admitted to openly discussing their penis stats with current or potential partners, I bet each has some internal pride of their manhood – something I like to refer to as penis honor. I am proud of my penis. Don't dare stomp on my pride!
And that is just what happened to that couple and the Penis Murder. The man had his pride crushed by a small penis comment and he lost his mind. This is taking penis honor way too far. If your lady has the nerve to put down your penis pride, then just walk away.
All men are sensitive about penis size. You could say its part of their overall ego, self-worth, and strangely enough their identity. Have you ever been to a nudist club and seen the guy with the giant cock swinging around cermoniously for all to see. He isn't there because he believes that he was born to be a nudist, he is there to display his trophy penis for all to see. The average men around him are thinking he had to have been struck with some rare form of elephantitist and is clearly not normal. Half of the woman are thinking YES, I want that and the other half are scared to death of what that penis would do to her pretty, tight vagina.
Let me tell you this, a giant penis is not always an honor guys. Women and men love penises in all different sizes. If one particular woman/man isn't pleased with your size, move on to the next. Forget about having pride in the size of your member and learn how to use it to please. Just as I am not attracted to this or that type of man, I'm not attracted to a small penis. So what? The next girl or guy likely is.
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This article appears in Feb 17-23, 2010.