Dreaming of oral sex

I am making some realistic assumptions now by suggesting that your BF and his sister are very close. I'm hypothesizing that they share intimate details of their lives with each other, which is something all close family members do.  These personal sharings are usually verbal (oral) and may be about sex at times. This is no big deal for close family members (unless it's parent-to-child sexual sharing).

On my soapbox, one of the reasons this country is so freaked out about intimacy is that, thanks to the media and some religious communities, it is always linked to sexual behavior. That's a tragic mistake and one that drives people apart for fear of being seen as weird or perverted. Sad. Sad. SAD!

Now, back to your dream. You are a product of our cultural assumptions as outlined above. You, thanks probably to your parents and childhood environment,  can't imagine a truly intimate sibship that isn't sexual, but your healthy unconscious can.

So, what the dream is really telling you is that your BF and his sister verbally (orally) share the intimacies of their lives (and I don't mean sexual). What you need to ask yourself now is, how verbally intimate am I with the people close to me?  My guess is you're not. The dream is telling you to do so ASAP since that is the kind of woman your BF will more than likely want around for the long term. Note the glow in the picture above is intimacy, not sex.

Finally Dream Momma suggests you tell your BF about the dream in the following way: tell him you dreamed he and his sister were closer than you and he were and hoped that would change. Ask him to help you be more verbally intimate. He will be delighted, your relationship will strengthen, and so will your sex life.

Dream Momma