Filling the Well

Filling the well involves the woman lying on her back, as she brings her legs as close to her chest as possible. The man is then instructed to enter her deeply and slowly, allowing her to then rest her feet onto the man’s shoulders.As the man supports his own weight, he advised not to thrust his penis in and out, but rather circle deeply in her yoni. The woman can control his penetration and motion using her hands to guide his hip movement.

On a positive note, the woman will usually quickly reach orgasm in this position, as well as the man. On a negative note (for some), pregnancy is said to be quite likely in this position (because of the reduced distance the sperm has to travel to the egg) if precaution is not taken.

On a scale of 1 to 10 how would you rate position (1 as horrible, 10 as sexual nirvana)?

This woman gives this one a 10, the man a 7, with the potential for a 10 (see suggestions)...

Did you have difficulty getting into the position?

No, she'll open right up in this position.

Did you feel like a pretzel? Were you able to do the motions once in position?


Any recommendations on getting either in or out of this position:

The key to getting “in” for the man, is to gradually sink deeper into her yoni one step at a time, while allowing her excitement about the position to build. There is a fine line of pleasure and pain when the mans appendage is so close to the cervix, but if the woman is excited enough, this very intense feeling can actually be ultra erotic!

How long did you last in the position?

Probably about 5 minutes total, with 2 of those being me trying to coerce myself in as deep as she'd let me, while the final 3 were of her pulling me in deeper, grinding her clitoris against my public bone, like an pre-adolescent teen learning about masturbation for the first time on a rocking horse.

Enjoyment once you were in position (for the woman):

This position provided an incredible sensation for her. The combination of light pressure towards her cervix, mixed with her own guided clitoral stimulation, left her as a shaking bowl of jelly when all was said and done!

Enjoyment once you were in position (for the man):

It is quite a turn-on to see your partner that turned-on, although I must say that the position itself did not provide me with the same intense sexual stimulation as it did for her.

Short Answers:

Was the position comfortable? Were you able to relax?

Man: Yes, it was pretty comfortable.

Woman: It was a bit uncomfortable at first until she got into it and took over the show for the most part.

Would you consider this to be an intimate position (Why or why not)? I think this position can be very intimate for the woman, but less so for the man. The woman has this very intense feeling of her partner deep inside and she then shares a very intense orgasm. Plus she is very vulnerable throughout the whole exchange which brings a lot of trust. For the man however, he ends up feeling a bit like a blow-up John Holmes Doll who is pushed and pulled into various angles while being told to move here and stop there.

Are you achy or sore after the fact?

Man: My public bone was sore from all that grinding that was going on.

Woman: No

What did the position feel like (both mentally and physically) in 50 words or less? The position is very intense at first for both couples. It is very exciting for the man to see his partner spread out with her legs practically pinned behind her ears. But the natural inclination will be to “bang” her, so it is very disheartening to give her the reins and and allow her to control such a beautiful opportunity.

Did she reach orgasm? …Yes

Did he reach orgasm? ...No

Did it take longer than usual to reach orgasm? No, she was a three-minute wonder.

Would you do this position again (why or why not)? I am going top have to in order to keep peace in this house. This is a taste of something far too good to take away. But, I must say it isn't a bad position, it is just not as pleasurable as it could be. But then there is always compromise, which is what I speak of next.

Any suggestions to make the position more pleasurable: Yes, once again we come to a position which can do wonders with a little compromise. While everybody will have their own method, for me, what made this position a winner was to allow her the ability to control the position up to the point where she was close to orgasm.

At this point, she is so turned on it really won't matter what you do as the guy. I take advantage of this moment and start to thrust in and out, while she is in her own ecstasy.

The end finale of this compromise was her being turned-on and orgasming, which in turn, turned me on to an orgasm, which then lead to her being turned on again and having a second orgasm... confused yet? So am I, Just Try It!


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