While an orgy might seem like free-for-all sex, there are still some basic rules that need to be followed. I've been involved in a few orgies over the years and had many good experiences along with a few bad ones. Follow a few simple rules and a good time will be had by all.
DO make your seletions clear before hitting the bed. Most couples will meet at a bar or club before moving onto a hotel room. This is a good time to decide who you want to fuck and who you want to avoid. A little pre-sex flirting is a good way to express your interest. If someone is totally avoiding eye contact or doesn't seem interested in talking to you its a good sign that you shouldn't approach that person with your dick. If you are still unsure just ask "mind if I play through?"
DO make your rules clear up front. I have been involved in a hot and heavy situation more than one time when I am told "sorry, I'm only allowed soft swap". Nothing pisses me off more than being right at the moment of some good fucking only to be told no.
DO bring your own condoms. Group sex obviously involves sex with more than one person. One condom is just not going to suffice in this type of situation. Condoms should be changed between each partner. Running out or not having any is poor etiquette. Don't cut back on someone else's good time because you have to borrow a couple of condoms. Go ahead and purchase that economy pack, it will be worth it.
DON'T expect all the attention. While no one loves being the center of attention more than me, it's never a guaranteed position. Whether you are a porn star, MILF, or the girl next door, you still may not be the object of everyone's desire. If you walk into the door with this understanding you will have a much better time than if you expect it and don't get it. At the end of the night leave happy and satisfied rather than disappointed and sexually frustrated.
DO let your lips wonder. With naked bodies all over and a virtual live porn taking place right in front of your eyes, enjoy the moment by stealing a kiss from the hottie getting screwed next to you. Your sexual pleasure will heighten with the touch of more than one person at a time.
DO play with your spouse too. Nothing is sexier than seeing your significant other being pleased by another. Join in with them to make that moment more erotic for both of you. This also provides some sexy fuel to talk about during your own next hot session in bed.
DO wait patiently if you finish early. Not everyone can go for hours. Some men have been blessed with the ability to have sex for hours and the rest are probably on Viagra. In any case, someone has to finish up first. Take this time to relax and enjoy the show until everyone finishes.
DON'T ever assume sex. The point of an orgy is group sex, but never assume everyone is going to have sex with you. The best advice is to be upfront with your intentions, always be polite and respectful, and enjoy yourself.
