(Editor's note: This reader's letter has been edited for length)
I'm rather new to anything to do with the word Mistress. I've always sort of referred to myself as a gay man who likes to play with boobs trapped in the body of a woman, which could be easier to sum up if I just refer to myself as a switch. I'm always for experimenting and I refuse to ever feel ashamed about anything to do with sex since it has always felt like such a natural thing. At the same time I do still know when to ask for guidance. Recently I have begun to see a nice, albeit innocent, guy. Like most people I welcome to my bedroom, I inspired honesty in him. My boytoy (as I find myself calling him) confided in me that he enjoys dominant females.
This article appears in Aug 23-29, 2012.