Filling the Well involves the woman lying on her back, as she brings her legs as close to her chest as possible. The man then enters her deeply and slowly, allowing her to rest her feet on the man’s shoulders. As the man supports his own weight, he is advised not to thrust in and out, but rather to circle deeply in her yoni. The woman can control his penetration and motion using her hands to guide his hip movement.
On a positive note, the woman will usually quickly reach orgasm in this position, as well as the man. On a negative note (for some), pregnancy is said to be quite likely in this position (because of the reduced distance the sperm has to travel to the egg) if precaution is not taken.
This article appears in Dec 2-8, 2009.