Kama Sutra: the female showoff

On a scale of 1 to 10 how would you rate this position?

It's an 8 for those of you guys lucky enough to have a partner who can (and will) do it. The woman gives it a 5.

Did you have difficulty getting into the position?

Yes. While she used to be a gymnast, she had a hard time leaning back without support.

Did you feel like a pretzel?

This position didn't feel like either of us were a pretzel, but it was hard getting the motion down.

Any recommendations on getting either in or out of position?

You'll need to help her into position, which is a lot like that trust game where somebody falls back and trusts that you'll catch them. If she is having a problem making the arch backwards, you have to make her trust that you'll be there to support her. If her back just isn't able to stretch that far, then your sh#@ out of luck!

How long did you last in the position? Two minutes

Enjoyment once you were in position: She didn't find it particularly pleasurable... but I sure in the hell did!

Was the position comfortable?

Man: Very!

Woman: Not comfortable in the least!

Is this an intimate position?

Incredibly intimate. I challenge any of those retreat leaders who use the backwards fall technique for building teamwork and trust to implement the back-bend into blowjob technique. There's so much more trust and intimacy involved. The woman must trust that her partner will catch her, while the man trusts that his manhood won't still be in her mouth on the way down (ouch!).

Are you achy or sore after the fact?

Man: Not in the slightest

Woman: No...

What did the position feel like both mentally and physically? Well, the position feels a lot like a blowjob (as it should), but the tongue is more focused on the top of the shaft, which is a refreshing change. You've maybe seen it in porn flicks, but it's even sexier to watch in person.

Did she reach orgasm?


Did he reach orgasm?

...Yes, I did.

Did it take longer than usual to reach orgasm?

Shorter... but I had to work quick, because I knew I couldn't keep her there long!

Would you do this position again?

Hell yes, but the bigger question is if she'll do it again.

Suggestions for making this position more pleasurable:

Instead of being selfish and hogging all the pleasure, the man can easily stimulate her nipples and clitoris (and without having to do a back-bend). However, you must wait and give her time to feel confident in the position before you start messing up her focus. Her first concern will be falling, as it should be yours. Once you get in a good rhythm, break out some toys or just use your hand to work at making this a regular experience, rather than a one time wonder!

This position is basically a back-bend meets fellatio. It demonstrates the woman's athleticism while giving the man a very nice top-down view.

The position begins with the man and woman standing while facing the same direction with the woman four feet in front of the man. The woman then bends backwards into an arch until her mouth meets his manhood. For balance and leverage, the woman wraps her arms around his waist. She may also vary positions by holding onto his butt cheeks for added stimulation.

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