It's socially accepted that if you cant get what you need from 1 lover, try 2, just not at the same time, unless youre swingers, in which case the only sucking involves getting off.
I've been involved in love triangles for many reasons: I only wanted a fuck-buddy, I didnt want to get emotionally involved, I didnt think Id actually like him that much, I liked the rush of taking him from another woman.... But no matter what my reasons, someone was getting hurt. Ive been in love with someone who was either married, had a girlfriend, or who secretly yearned for another woman. Sometimes those women were my friends and sometimes they were strangers. I also let someone love me when I knew my heart belonged to another. I wanted to be loved so much. He wanted to leave his wife for me to prove how much he loved me. He had a baby with her instead, which created a different kind of triangle, but since Im only an advocate of fucking and not procreating, Im not touching that one.
I cant help it. Im in bed thinking of them both. The one Im hot for and the one Im sweet on. One intrigues me and plays hard to get while the other is pursuing me, making it too easy. Do I have to choose? Will they make that choice for me? Isnt that what gets me in these triangles to begin with--not wanting to choose one over the other? I'm always afraid that the one I let go of, was the one I should have kept? Maybe I can be in my very own love triangle again without someone getting hurt? Not likely. If I knew what was good for me Id pick one and give him my all. I know which one, but like most people, hes caught up in a love triangle of his own.