Naturally everyone has this preconceived notion that all swingers are middled aged people with borderline poor marriages seeking that lost luster. The last time I checked I was none of those things and most of the people I have met in the lifestyle aren't either. But what you will find in the swinger culture is that we do differ in different parts of the country. Sure there are groups of overweight, middle aged swingers here and there, but also groups of hot women and delicious men somewhere else.
Swinger communites can be found in some of the least likely places. Since swingers are largely an underground community you may not even be aware of a swinger club or mansion in your own neighborhood. How do swingers ever find each other? Whether you are in Idaho, New York, or Florida you must address the challenges of your area to find suitable playmates. Some may have to travel great distances for a date while others can drive down the road to the local swingers club. Networking is the best way to introduce yourself and earn the trust of other swingers. After that trust is created most will welcome you with open arms.
This article appears in Jul 7-13, 2011.