Viagra: swingers drug of choice?

Whether  you are a 20 something or 50 something swinger I bet you have encountered or experienced bad sexual performance. Sometimes this occurs because you are 50 something (sorry guys) and sometimes for other reasons.  Nervous, drunk, high, or even the use of a condom will cause a man to loose his pride and joy.

Recently I was emailed regarding the popular use of Viagra in the swinger lifestyle.  This guy was a 20 something man who never really had an issue with getting it up in any situation.  But after hearing how great the drug was he wanted to give it a shot.  The experience was nothing to write home about he tells me.  It was sex as usual.  Nothing monumental happened.  But is something outrageous supposed to happen during sex when taking Viagra or is it just doing what it is supposed to do - get you hard and keep you hard?

Why do men use Viagra?  Above and beyond the need to just get an erection, men like to have the ability to go all night like they once could in their younger years.  Other men are quite possibly overly excited/nervous about the prospect of a new hot girl paying attention to him and with the thought of rolling a condom over his dick makes them shrink away to marshmallow land.

From what I have experienced through others and have been told, Viagra tends to raise the blood pressure leading to headaches.  It also will almost over stimulate some leaving them so senstive that they just aren't sensitive anymore and yet others are stuck with the continuous hard on that never allows them to cum.  Good?  Bad?  You will have to be the judge of that. 

How and where do these guys without erection problems get their Viagra.  I am by no means promoting the use of this drug without the need as prescribed by a doctor, but I have known a few to stretch the embarrasing truth to get a prescription.  For someone who really doesn't need the drug for daily sex a bottle of Viagra will last a good long time.

As with any drug , beware of side effects, interactions, and the like.  It's never safe to take something not meant for you, but I have found from my experience in the swinger lifestyle that many are using the drug quite frequently (those who aren't maybe should).

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