Why everyone should buy porn (NSFW)

promotional teasers. Sure, that's enough to jack off to - hell, most of us could wank to a single image if it pushes our buttons hard enough - but it's like comparing movie theater nachos with a fine restaurant meal. You just get so much more of what you want if you shell out the dough for the real thing, and without having to slog through a mass of unrelated garbage to find it.


Being able to see your favorite fantasy in depth is an excellent reason to buy porn. But I think the second reason may be even more compelling. Sexual content has penetrated every corner of our media. Yes, some of us are still quibbling over the details. But it's clear that we have (quite sensibly) decided, as a culture, that sex is a fit subject for creativity and commerce. The question now is not really whether it should be bought and sold but what exactly the terms of the deal should be?


And that's where the consumer has ultimate control.


I hear people complaining all the time that there's no porn which reflects what they want to see. Indeed, they often give this as their reason for refusing to buy porn. This is completely counterproductive because no producer is going to make porn that doesn't sell. So if you're refusing to buy porn... and nobody seems to be making the porn you want to watch... that's nobody's fault but your own?


[image-1]When people say they can't find porn that they like it's because they haven't really looked. The variety of body types and sexual activities on display in porn today is truly mind-boggling. Additionally, the vast majority of porn being made is by small producers (like myself) who are very responsive to their customer's desires. So even if you can't find quite what you're looking for all you really need to do is find something close to what you want, and get in touch with the producer. Chances are they'll be happy to try and make what you want to see - after all, they want you to buy their product!


The principle here is essentially the same as buying local & independent: you're voting with your dollars about what kind of porn you want to see. That guy I mentioned at the beginning may enjoy his daily freebie. But if all the model gets is guys admiring her freebies, and nobody PAYING FOR her work, she will eventually find a new profession. I wonder if the self-satisfaction of claiming that he "never uses porn" will compensate for missing her when she no longer posts freebies.


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I know a guy who insists that he never uses porn, but every single day he tweets the "daily naked pic" from his favorite web porn model.  The point is that we ALL use porn. What we don't all do is buy porn, though today I'm going to tell you why we should.

There are two compelling reasons why every adult with a sex drive should buy porn: 1) You get what you pay for, and 2) You get what you pay for.

If the only porn you've ever seen is free-range stuff, you're probably not aware of the difference you'll find behind the credit card protected walls of a paysite. While you might be able to find some full-length movies on a tube site, 99% of what you see for free is

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