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Savage Love: ‘I view bondage the same as getting together with friends for a round of golf, or shooting hoops’

And it’s not just men who are into intense bondage.

by Dan Savage December 22, 2021June 20, 2025

And it’s not just men who are into intense bondage.

Arts & Entertainment

Fetish Con 2014 in photos: They came to play

The expo showcased lifestyles of the free-spirited and adventurous.

by DrunkCameraGuy August 11, 2014August 5, 2025

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Interview with the naked vampire: Angela Sommers (NSFW)

The Penthouse Pet on her alter ego, strap ons, being tied up, why she’ll try anything twice, biting her fans, and naming her vagina.

by Shawn Alff September 11, 2013July 3, 2025

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Quickies

Rapid-fire advice on a variety of topics.

by Dan Savage September 7, 2013August 3, 2023

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Mixing memory and desire at Fetish Con 2013 (NSFW)

Adventures in the art of being memorable at one of the largest gatherings of fetishists in the world.

by Shawn Alff September 4, 2013July 12, 2025

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Briella Jaden on becoming a traveling fetish model (NSFW)

by Shawn Alff April 17, 2012April 22, 2025

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Taboo fetish ball: the naked and the undead (photos NSFW)

by Shawn Alff April 10, 2012July 11, 2025

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Dominate me

How do I find a kinky mate that’s right for me?

by Dan Savage March 22, 2012June 22, 2025

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Shopping for romance in an adult superstore: Valentine’s Day at The Todd

Top items: Red lingerie, fetish toys and “anything that vibrates.”

by Shawn Alff January 31, 2012April 1, 2025

Arts & Entertainment

Your Brain on Sex: sex as self-help

by Shawn Alff September 29, 2011January 3, 2025

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My baby’s got me in chains… and other alternatives to rope bondage

by Mistress Erisiana Cherie March 22, 2011June 30, 2025

Arts & Entertainment

Jenna Haze: the ‘dirtiest girl in porn’ on books, condoms, and love (NSFW)

by Shawn Alff October 19, 2010August 5, 2025

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Caged heat

It’s too dangerous to leave someone locked up.

by Dan Savage June 10, 2010January 27, 2024

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What’s your fetish? (verbally NSFW)

by Rebecca Ammon March 24, 2010October 3, 2023

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I miss being dominated; should I suggest a threesome?

Her old boyfriend can teach her new one some tricks.

by Dan Savage July 8, 2009June 12, 2025

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Sex and love adult events this weekend: June 12-14

by Red June 11, 2009February 7, 2024

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Uncle Sam wants your sex toys!

by Dan Savage February 11, 2009June 29, 2025

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Dad’s son-in-law is a “dominant” BDSM

by Dan Savage October 22, 2008April 2, 2025