Fetish Con 2014 in photos: They came to play

The expo showcased lifestyles of the free-spirited and adventurous.

by DrunkCameraGuy August 11, 2014August 5, 2025

The expo showcased lifestyles of the free-spirited and adventurous.

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Hookup shook up

Relationship advice columnist Dan Savage addresses all manner of hookup shenanigans.

by Dan Savage May 17, 2014August 17, 2023

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Savage Love: Cuck You

Why some men love cuckolding, how to use a free pass to cheat, is there any medical danger in deep throating…

by Dan Savage February 24, 2014July 18, 2025

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Working the kinks out

Easing into the BDSM dating scene, what to do if you’re terrible at dominating a sub, how to handle a husband who spends $400 a month on a pro dom

by Dan Savage February 1, 2014November 14, 2024

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Sheathe that thing

How do I tell my boyfriend about my kink without bruising his ego?

by Dan Savage September 14, 2013August 3, 2023

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Mixing memory and desire at Fetish Con 2013 (NSFW)

Adventures in the art of being memorable at one of the largest gatherings of fetishists in the world.

by Shawn Alff September 4, 2013July 12, 2025

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Kinky kid

My teenage son is stealing and wearing diapers.

by Dan Savage August 25, 2013November 9, 2024

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Adventures in virginity: birth of an affection fetish

Maybe all those alcoholic fathers from the ’50s were right; if you baby a boy, he’ll turn out to be a sissy, just like me.

by Shawn Alff August 19, 2013May 13, 2025

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Diaper pals

How do I reveal my kink without scaring off a new connection?

by Dan Savage August 3, 2013June 22, 2025

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In brief …

Quick answers to reader questions.

by Dan Savage April 6, 2013August 3, 2023

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Lockup

Can a male chastity belt cause long-term damage?

by Dan Savage March 9, 2013June 18, 2025

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Valentine’s Day shopping

What kinky toys should I buy for my boyfriend?

by Dan Savage January 18, 2013August 3, 2023

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How to give orders like the goddess you are

by Mistress Erisiana Cherie August 29, 2012August 5, 2025

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50 shades of Fetish Con: POV scenes from the 2012 convention (NSFW)

by Shawn Alff August 10, 2012June 25, 2025

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Sandpit Manor: Will rebuilding our house demolish our mistress-slave relationship?

by Mistress Erisiana Cherie April 16, 2012June 18, 2025

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Dominate me

How do I find a kinky mate that’s right for me?

by Dan Savage March 22, 2012June 22, 2025

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Kinky Negotiations

by Mistress Erisiana Cherie March 1, 2012January 13, 2025

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15 fetishes you didn’t know existed from The Book of Kink

by Shawn Alff October 4, 2011August 5, 2025

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No sweat

Is it wrong to sell my son’s used gym clothes to online fetishists?

by Dan Savage August 25, 2011August 3, 2023

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Mommy’s Nipple Piercing: the kinky parent adventures continue (NSFW)

by Mistress Erisiana Cherie July 1, 2011August 4, 2025