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Relationship advice columnist Dan Savage addresses all manner of hookup shenanigans.

by Dan Savage May 17, 2014August 17, 2023

Relationship advice columnist Dan Savage addresses all manner of hookup shenanigans.

Savage Love: Great Pains

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How to support a gay nephew without leading him on, where to send a submissive husband, how to tell if your new boyfriend is gay…

by Dan Savage January 21, 2014April 14, 2024

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POV scenes of an alley blowjob, new love, partying with porn stars, and the 2013 NightMoves Awards.

by Shawn Alff January 18, 2014June 19, 2025

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Prude: lessons on love, sex, and writing from memoirist Emily Southwood

A Q & A with the author on what she learned when her fiancé filmed porn.

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Documentary on why men cheat, featuring Tampa (full video)

The fact that powerful men risk everything for sex should prove how little choice they have in the matter.

by Shawn Alff April 12, 2013August 16, 2023

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Fear and lusting in Las Vegas

Meditations on love and marriage in the heart of the 2013 AVN Awards

by Shawn Alff February 7, 2013May 3, 2025

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Future sex

How the culture of sex and love will change in 2013 and beyond.

by Shawn Alff January 3, 2013June 10, 2024

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Signs of the asspocalypse

by Shawn Alff January 2, 2013June 5, 2022

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Rewriting romance with bay area BDSM author, Riley Murphy

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Unfaithfulness is funny in Cheat: A Man’s Guide to Infidelity

A Q & A with comedian Joe DeRosa on his field guide to philandering

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On the Island: How Tracey Garvis Graves’s romance novel survived the barren literary seas

by Shawn Alff July 30, 2012August 3, 2023

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jessica drake’s guide to becoming a ‘wicked’ sex coach

by Shawn Alff April 25, 2012April 20, 2025

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Business coach, Caird Urquhart, on how to rally after a breakup

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Unspeakable happiness

Not all nonmonogamous relationships are destined to fail.

by Dan Savage January 4, 2012March 12, 2025

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Top 10 most provocative interviews on sex of 2011

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Jacky St. James on the craft of writing porn for women

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Reigniting an old flame

The return of a first love threatens an otherwise stable marriage.

by Dan Savage December 8, 2011August 3, 2023

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Do as I say …

How can I leave my submissive self behind?

by Dan Savage November 17, 2011August 3, 2023

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A pool party, porn stars, and the proverbial hand-job (NSFW)

by Shawn Alff October 10, 2011June 15, 2025

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Savage Love: Quickies

Neon Nights (NSFW)

Prude: lessons on love, sex, and writing from memoirist Emily Southwood

Documentary on why men cheat, featuring Tampa (full video)

Fear and lusting in Las Vegas

Future sex

Signs of the asspocalypse

Rewriting romance with bay area BDSM author, Riley Murphy

Unfaithfulness is funny in Cheat: A Man’s Guide to Infidelity

On the Island: How Tracey Garvis Graves’s romance novel survived the barren literary seas

jessica drake’s guide to becoming a ‘wicked’ sex coach

Business coach, Caird Urquhart, on how to rally after a breakup

Unspeakable happiness

Top 10 most provocative interviews on sex of 2011

Jacky St. James on the craft of writing porn for women

Reigniting an old flame

Do as I say …

A pool party, porn stars, and the proverbial hand-job (NSFW)