There is more to this week’s Savage Love. To read the entire column, go to savage.love. I’m a 31-year-old cis man married to a 33-year-old non-binary partner, and our relationship has always been very vanilla. Over the past few years, I’ve discovered that I’m a kinky person, with a particular interest in both domination and […]
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Savage Love: My wife likes to suck cock, but not mine
She says it’s because we love each other too much.
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Savage Love: I don’t think swapping dick pics is common among straight guys
Is your relationship a police state?
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Savage Love: Small town teachers looking for cunnilingus probably can’t avoid the dating apps
Hoping to get some tips from other teachers, I shared your email on Twitter.
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Savage Love: Sexual infidelity is one thing, emotional infidelity is another
There’s a difference between knowing something because you kinda sorta figured and knowing something because you were literally fucking told.
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Savage Love: You’re probably not going to become bonded to the rando you’re boning on the side
But that’s not 100% guaranteed.
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Savage Love: Two shitty relationships in row isn’t evidence that your judgment is flawed
But don’t ignore the red flags.
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Savage Love: You’re gonna want to pay for what you can if you don’t want to feel like a daddy’s boy
Also, how about those Southern Baptist groomers, eh?
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Savage Love: It might be his kink, but there’s no real safe way to punch your husband in the balls
Plus more quickies.
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Savage Love: Freysexuals don’t want to have sex with someone they have strong feelings for
Basically, love is erotic kryptonite to the freysexual.
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Savage Love: My bi-sexual wife and I have an open relationship, but now I’m the straight guy feeling left out
Also, you can never record someone without their consent.
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Savage Love: Help, my wife masturbates in bed when she thinks I’m asleep
Plus, is there any risk of long-term damage from wearing a male chastity cage?
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Savage Love: Vulvodynia, or pain in the vulva, is very common, and it sucks, but there are treatments and providers that could help
And your gynecologist should have already referred you to a pelvic floor specialist.
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Savage Love: If you like the D, there’s nothing wrong with a successful short-term relationship
But don’t move in, don’t make any promises, and don’t stay in this relationship one minute longer than you want to.
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Savage Love: Tell your nephew that ‘convincing’ other boys to ‘subtly dominate him’ isn’t ethical
Consent is paramount.
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Savage Love: I matched with my sister on a dating app
I’m letting my best friend’s husband drink my urine, too.
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Savage Love: I’m a bi-sexual, married woman who wants to learn how to get off on straight sex
Cheat code: do some dirty talk.
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Savage Love: After 15 years, I’ve perfected prostate play, but now my balls hurt
Take a hot shower?