While most swingers may consider their lifestyle a dating lifestyle; typically swingers go on dates with their spouses. Another growing trend in the great world of alternative lifestyles is married but dating. Many will call this a poly-type relationship. I view a poly relationship as someone that you may see often and not a random hook up. I'm sure there will be many who disagree with this definition, but this is my view.
I frequently receive emails with questions of how to date while married. Do you tell the other person your real name?