Female Version of “The Showoff”

This position is kind of a back handspring meets fellatio. It is known to demonstrate the athletic ability of a woman, while giving the man a very nice top down view.

The position begins with the man and woman standing and facing in same direction with the woman four feet in front of man. The woman then bends backwards into an arch until her mouth meets his manhood.

For balance and leverage the woman is instructed to wrap her arms around his waist for support. She may also vary positions by holding onto his butt cheeks for added stimulation.

On a scale of 1 to 10 how would you rate position (1 as horrible, 10 as sexual nirvana)?

It is an 8 for those of you guys lucky enough to have a partner who can (and will) do it. The woman gives it a 5.

Did you have difficulty getting into the position? Yes, while she “used” to be a gymnast, she had a bit of a hard time leaning back without support.

Did you feel like a pretzel? Were you able to do the motions once in position? No on the pretzel thing, but a yes on getting the motion down smooth.

Any recommendations on getting either in or out of this position: You'll need to help her into position, which is a lot like that trust game where somebody falls back and must trust that their partner will be there to catch them. If she is having a problem making the arch back to your manhood, you got to make her trust that you will be there to support her. If her back just isn't able to stretch that far, then your sh#@ out of luck!

How long did you last in the position? Two minutes

Enjoyment once you were in position (for the woman): She did not find it particularly pleasurable...

Enjoyment once you were in position (for the man): But I sure in the hell did!

Short Answers

Was the position comfortable? Were you able to relax?

Man: Very!

Woman: Not comfortable in the least!

Would you consider this to be an intimate position (Why or why not)? Incredibly intimate and trust building. I challenge any of those retreats who use the backwards fall and catch trust building technique, to implement the fall back and give a blowjob technique instead. There is so much more trust and intimacy involved on both partners, because the one person has to worry that their partner will let them fall, while the other partner has to worry that their manhood might still be in her mouth on the way down (ouch!).

Are you achy or sore after the fact?

Man: Not in the slightest

Woman: No...

What did the position feel like (both mentally and physically) in 50 words or less? Well, the position feels a lot like a blowjob (as it should), but the tongue is more focused on the top of the shaft, vs the traditional “job”, which gives a refreshing change to the usual. You've maybe seen it in porn flicks, but it is even more sexy to watch in person.

Did she reach orgasm? …No

Did he reach orgasm? ...Yes, I did.

Did it take longer than usual to reach orgasm? Shorter... but I had to work quick, because I knew I couldn't keep her there long!

Would you do this position again (why or why not)? Oh, hell yes... because it feels good! The bigger question is if she'll do it again... Below is a suggestion that just might hold her interest for a second round.

Any suggestions to make the position more pleasurable: Instead of being a heathen and enjoying all the pleasure without giving some, this position offers the man a nice shot at playing with her goodies and rewarding her well for her efforts. You must give her time to settle and feel confident in the position before you mess to much. Her first concern will be falling, as it should be yours (see above). Once you get in a good rhythm, break out some toys or a handy finger and set to work at making this a regular experience, rather than a one time wonder!