Shooting down a sense of Self

“Dream Momma, Had a bad breakup recently with a guy named Tony (not his real name). In the dream I am knocking on the door of an apartment like mine. To my right is someone with keys shaped like a gun. To my left is someone trying to get out (possibly a cleaning person) of another apartment. When no one answers I turn as do the others when a woman in front of me facing the door says, Well, Hello Tony, why doesn’t anyone like you?” I turn and see Tony behind me and ask him something and he is hostile to me. This dream really bothers me.”