To be violated is perhaps a need in women, a secret erotic need.
I am an incredibly dominant woman - a dominatrix, if you will. I frequent fetish parties and take pleasure in enacting peoples fantasy scenarios. Some of my slaves like pain, others humiliation, and some just enjoy doing as theyre told.
On the fetish scene, people only see my femme dom persona, Mistress Ginger: a whip-wielding woman in a vintage slip and seamed stockings, or perhaps a leather-clad school girl leading a gaggle of boys on leashes.
This wont change any time soon, but I have a hidden fantasy that I keep secret even from those with whom I'm most intimate.