Swinger facts you didn't know, but should

I had a great time this weekend at another swinger party.  Since I was not the hostess and wasn't attempting to network with anyone, I had the opportunity to just blend into the crowd (my next event is  Dec. 17th).  And even though I was only wearing my swinger hat, and not my Rebecca Ammon - sex writer hat, I still found time to make some mental notes.

1.  Most all swingers are