While serving as a military police officer for three years, Kyle O’Donnell constantly lived in fear. He lied about where he was going, who he was with, and above all, about his sexuality.

At age 25, O’Donnell suffered from high blood pressure because of this fear and ultimately left the military. The reason? “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT) had finally gotten to him.

In an attempt to inform others about the negative effects of former President Clinton’s DADT policy, the Human Rights Campaign has launched the Voices of Honor tour in support of President Obama’s pledge to work with Congress and the military to end the policy.

The event came to Tampa on Sunday, May 23, at the Metropolitan Community Church where veterans came forward to discuss their experiences in the military under DADT. O’Donnell was one of four former service members, telling his story of serving as a gay man.

Air Force veteran Kevin Klhar also served under DADT.

“We really do need to repeal the policy,” Klhar said. “This is for everyone having to be something other than themselves—let’s openly accept gays and lesbians into the military.”

Klhar was investigated for being gay three times before an officer tried to discharge him after being "outed" after 18 years of service.

This article appears in May 20-26, 2010.