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Savage Love: It might be his kink, but there’s no real safe way to punch your husband in the balls
Plus more quickies.
Dan Savage
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Savage Love: Freysexuals don’t want to have sex with someone they have strong feelings for
Basically, love is erotic kryptonite to the freysexual.
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Savage Love: More men need to talk about how abortions kept their lives on track
With some sex advice sprinkled in.
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Savage Love: My bi-sexual wife and I have an open relationship, but now I’m the straight guy feeling left out
Also, you can never record someone without their consent.
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Savage Love: Help, my wife masturbates in bed when she thinks I’m asleep
Plus, is there any risk of long-term damage from wearing a male chastity cage?
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Savage Love: I’m worried about accidentally killing my husband while we get kinky with his sleep sack
Storage nights, amirite?
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Savage Love: If you can’t live with the risks of being exposed to STIs, sex parties probably aren’t for you
But folks with gonorrhea of the throat should get a repeat test and abstain from oral in the meantime.
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Savage Love: Vulvodynia, or pain in the vulva, is very common, and it sucks, but there are treatments and providers that could help
And your gynecologist should have already referred you to a pelvic floor specialist.
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Savage Love: If you like the D, there’s nothing wrong with a successful short-term relationship
But don’t move in, don’t make any promises, and don’t stay in this relationship one minute longer than you want to.
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Savage Love: Options for your sexless marriage, defining a very specific pee fetish and more
Plus, you might have to get that abusive ex fired.
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Savage Love: To navigate tightness, sometimes you have to leave PIV intercourse off the menu
Also, don’t wait around for assholes to call you back.
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Savage Love: No relationship—closed, open, or poly—is a paradise
And when do I introduce my family to my leather daddy?
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Savage Love: Tell your nephew that ‘convincing’ other boys to ‘subtly dominate him’ isn’t ethical
Consent is paramount.
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Savage Love: I matched with my sister on a dating app
I’m letting my best friend’s husband drink my urine, too.
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Savage Love: I swallow a lot, but now I’m worried about STIs and poisoning myself
Moderation is key, right?
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Savage Love: I’m a bi-sexual, married woman who wants to learn how to get off on straight sex
Cheat code: do some dirty talk.
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Savage Love: After 15 years, I’ve perfected prostate play, but now my balls hurt
Take a hot shower?
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Savage Love: Study says 33.9% of men who think they’re circumcised actually aren’t
Also, what’s it mean if I don’t want penis, but love being spanked and punished by men.
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Savage Love: ‘Tributing to a gay FinDom is like supporting a small queer business, and that’s something we should all be doing’
Also, ‘Every time I go in search of cock, without fail, I encounter men who claim to be uncut who are clearly cut.’
