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Savage Love: What it means when you find wet lube and Fleet enemas in your boyfriend’s closet
A lot of guys use lube to jack off.
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Savage Love: ‘I view bondage the same as getting together with friends for a round of golf, or shooting hoops’
And it’s not just men who are into intense bondage.
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Savage Love: You’re under no obligation to tell your casual sex partners that you have an OnlyFans
The OF where you share photos and videos you make with your other casual sex partners.
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Savage Love: Dirty talking about my husband’s ex-fiance is ruining the sex
And how to break up with your work sex buddy.
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Savage Love: It’s annoying when a straight guy assumes his straightness is an aphrodisiac that drives gay men wild
Also, no one can stop you from using the term lesbian to describe yourself.
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Savage Love: If your fiance only has sex with you to make you happy, then postpone the wedding now
Oh, and there’s a reason you kind find anyone suitable for your backlot.
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Savage Love: Many bisexuals don’t come out because they fear being mercilessly outed by vindictive partners
And your pubic hair will grow back, so shave it if your partner politely asks you to.
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Savage Love: Cuck angst is real, managing and overcoming it is an emotional feat
And please—please, please, please—don’t rush into your first cuckquean experience.
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Savage Love: Yes, you have to disclose genital warts to your partner, and their reaction will tell you a lot about your relationship
FYI: There’s a HPV vaccine, too.
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Savage Love: I feel like a predator for hooking up with a 19-year-old when I was 26
And why am I not allowed to shave my pubes?
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Savage Love: If your ex is just using you for sexts and you don’t like it, then just stop
And sorry, Dan can’t connect readers to each other.
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Savage Love: Your boyfriend’s kink has crossed into abuse, and it’s time for you to leave
Make a plan, lean on supportive friends, take your kid, and get away from this man.
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Savage Love: I’m a strict straight Dom top on Grindr, and totally confused about it
‘…you’re not promoting homophobia or justifying homophobic violence.’
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Savage Love: My massage therapist and I became friends, but now he has feelings for me
And I’m a tantric sex sage who can no longer come when I want to, what do I do?
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Savage Love: So your husband is now asexual, here’s why it’s OK to keep sucking other dicks
And vote every last GOP motherfucker out of office.
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Savage Love: My wife came out as lesbian, and our therapists keep telling us to get divorced
And what do I do with this younger man I want to control?
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Savage Love: If you can’t show respect for micropenises, then solicit dick pics in advance of a first date
And why does riding my dildo anally relieve my back pain?
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Savage Love: My husband and I agreed to MFM threesomes, but after 20 years I’m ready to stop
Also, what do I call this thing I like done to my dick?
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Savage Love: I dated my second cousin for 3 years, and now I have to meet his new partner at a family reunion
And you don’t have to worry about your 24-year-old virgin son, mom.