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Also, why does Senator Thom Tillis love Trump’s nutsack so much?

Also, your friends are giving you excellent advice—stay away from that guy for at least a year

Also, you’re making your threesome partners very uncomfortable.

Also, what to do when you see your friend’s boyfriend on a dating app.

But the other person’s pain is relevant, and we should be as compassionate and considerate as possible when ending a relationship.

Some professional dominants won’t even choke someone because it’s too dangerous.

And what’s the difference between kinks, fantasies and fetishes, anyway?

Then again, maybe you’re already trying to avoid making the dream come true.

Plus: What to do when your butt plug keeps popping out

Also, is it wrong to smell your wife’s underwear without telling her?

In a deeply sex-and-kink-negative culture, our first reaction when a partner discloses a kink is often a knee-jerk negative reaction to the idea of kinks at all.

AKA how to initiate that casual pandemic thing.

Plus, how to break up with an escort.

Plus, sex advice for virgins.

Especially since it’s unsafe to cuck in real life right now.

And here’s why all your boyfriends all have kink cards.

You’re also being an asshole to yourself by not disclosing being bisexual.

Plus: the ultimate long signoff.

I haven’t had sex in 12 weeks.

And what to do with your solid, but very boring, boyfriend.