Many are confused when it comes to the ethics of faking an orgasm. When I recently asked hundreds of people if it's ok to fake an orgasm, I got a barrage of ugly messages and emails claiming the act of faking it is completely wrong. Yet when I asked if it was alright to fake noises to intensify the experience I got a resounding yes, literally from around the world.

Who made up this rule that all parties must orgasm during sex? I know we all want to have mind blowing orgasms every time we copulate, but the fact is that it's just not always going to happen.

Recently Creative Loafing's Sex and Love Editor wrote the controversial piece "The more she screams, the

This article appears in Aug 5-11, 2010.