Most people believe that swingers live outside rules, but in some ways swingers often have more rules regarding our sexual communions than vanilla couples. Swinger couples normally go over their rules before heading to the bedroom. Many swingers have standard rules, like myself: always use protection and respect the other person and his or her rules. However, some swingers have some pretty peculiar demands.
Shower before sex rule: Soccer Dad and I encountered a couple who required new partners to shower before sex. Apparently this couple had met an unfavorably smelling couple and decided they must actually see every potential sex partner wash before anything sexual would occur. The couple offered to make this a
This article appears in May 5-11, 2010.
