Soccer Dad and I are off to another swingers party this weekend filled with couples we know and many we don't. So how do we know a swinger's party will be worth the trip, and thr price of admission, if we have no idea if there will be anyone there we want to fuck? We don't.
Vanilla couples may never completely understand swinging. The lifestyle is based on looks, confidence, and sexual prowess. You can be a perfectly nice person, and even attractive, but that doesn't mean I want to have sex with you just because I arrive at a swinger's party with a chocker that reads, "I love cock." Swinger parties or clubs are similar to regular bars on Saturday nights. They're meat markets, except for married folks.
This article appears in Dec 2-8, 2000.