Indiscretions are almost as common to marriage as rings. Even though sex outside of the marital bed is likely more normal than monogamy, it's still viewed as a travesty to marital bonds (even by those doing it).

Swingers practice a sexual lifestyle that many will never comprehend. Although those who likely damn our lifestyle are the same ones sexting their secretaries or planning a rendezvous at this years Christmas party.

With the prejudices and misconceptions about the lifestyle, most swingers choose to keep this part of their lives private. But the one place we feel safe to share this secret is with other swingers. That's why I was shocked to hear of a couple who

This article appears in Nov 18-24, 2010.