You may have never met her, you may have never even seen her, but the mythical Unicorn does exist. I know because I had lunch with her last week.

In the magical realm of swingerdom, a unicorn is a single female (often bi) who has sex with couples. While the lifestyle does attract single women interested in group sex, the term unicorn is generally reserved for the attractive, non-crazy variety, which is rare indeed.

This is why I got so excited when sorting through my emails, twitter DM's, and facebook inbox messages, I came across a note from a female searching for advice. Her question was simple: How do I