It’s hard enough finding a woman who likes you, let alone a woman who likes you enough to be completely honest with you and help you pick-up other women. Marni Kinrys founded the Wing Girl Method of attraction because she wants to be that woman. She's no matchmaker or life coach. She's an anointed attraction technician who won "World’s Best Female Pick-Up Artist" at the Pick-Up Artist PUA World Summit in Hollywood. She has studied under the top pick-up artists, including Mystery of VH1 and The Game fame, and her method is endorsed by other big brands in the attraction arts like David DeAngelo. Unlike matchmakers, Kinrys doesn't operate under the dogma that her clients are interested in finding a single partner. Her first priority is to make men better with women so they can find their own relationships, whatever form that may take. And though she's been a professional wing woman for seven years, it's clear she would be helping men with women even if she wasn't payed to do so; when our interview was over, she stayed on the phone asking about my relationship and comparing it with her recent marriage.
Shawn Alff: How does The Wing Girl Method differ from other pick-up schools like the Mystery Method or David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating?
Marni Kinrys: They go hand-in-hand… Men will learn other methods then come to me so I can tell them if it’s working for them… But I’m not a pick-up artist—-I’m an attraction specialist. What I provide men is how these tactics feel to a woman, and what we really want, which other male pick-up artists will never be able to understand… I can tell you how to pick-up a woman but I can also tell you
This article appears in Dec 16-22, 2010.