When the story broke about the gorgeous sports reporter, Ines Sainz, being harassed by members of the New York Jets football program on the field and in the locker room, the question on everyone's mind, but few's lips was —- if you dress in a way that exaggerates your sexuality, even at the work place, should you expect to receive some sexual comments? If we truly expect men to completely disconnect from their primal desires at work, shouldn't male reporters be able to walk around the locker rooms of professional female athletes?

Everyday I spend a ridiculous amount of time standing in my closet staring at my huge rack of clothes. I iron this shirt, that dress, and maybe a skirt or two before I find the appropriate outfit. It's no secret that I'm a curvy girl and at times this makes finding clothing that can adequately cover me in a professional environment challenging. Often times I end up with a sweater that's probably a little tight or a skirt that hugs my bubble butt. This is just a fact of life for me, and for others built like me. True, I dress to impress, but just how much attention I want at the office is a tricky issue.

Just like Ines, I spend my day working with men in a professional environment who behave in a less than professional manner towards me at times. The reality is that women like to

This article appears in Sep 16-22, 2010.