The St. Pete Pride weekend kicked off last night with A Taste of Pride, a reception at Nova 535, where I got a chance to talk with Janice Langbehn, the grand marshal of Saturday's parade. Langbehn seems a bit abashed by the lofty title, but her story needs to be told, and the Pride organizers made a brilliant political decision in helping to draw renewed attention to that story this week.
In Miami last year, Langbehn was about to embark on a cruise with her partner of 18 years, Lisa Marie Pond, and three of their four adopted children, when Pond suffered a brain aneurysm and was taken to Jackson Memorial Hospital. According to a lawsuit filed Wednesday against the hospital, the staff "refused to accept information from Langbehn regarding Pond's medical history, informing her that she was in an antigay city and state and that she could expect to receive no information or acknowledgment as family." Langbehn and her children were denied access to Pond for nearly eight hours. When the family was finally allowed to see her, the priest was administering last rites. Langbehn, with the help of Lambda Legal, is now suing the hospital and staffers for "negligent infliction of emotional distress."
What happened to Langbehn — a heartless, by-the-book bureaucratic foul-up if there ever was one — could become even more commonplace after November's election. If demagogues convince Florida voters that a same-sex marriage ban, already a law, should also be enshrined in the state constitution, the same thing could happen to anyone in Florida who defines family as other than one man/ one woman in a state-approved union. Unmarried heterosexual couples, senior citizens living together as companions, committed same-sex partners raising a family in relationships lasting 10, 20, 50 years — all of them would be at risk of being treated the same way as Janice Langbehn was treated.
Only if Amendment 2 passes, it won't be just boneheaded hospital staffers denying people their civil rights. It'll be the Florida Constitution.
If for no other reason than to show the world that you don't want that to happen, march in the Pride parade Saturday and show your support for a grand marshal who deserves all the support we can give.
Later this week, I'll be posting my interview, captured on ImGay.TV, with Lambda Legal's Beth Littrell, who's handling Langbehn's case. And on Saturday, look for Creative Loafing staffers, including myself, riding the Azalea fire truck in the parade and handing out copies of the Openly Gay Issue and special CL "branded" condoms — much better than "beeeeaaaads." And check out CL's booth at 25th & Central.
This article appears in Jun 25 – Jul 1, 2008.