Sex toys: my top 10 list

These stimulate the nipples by applying pressure. You need to find a balance between pain and pleasure. My husband really enjoys using these on me when we play school and he is the principle. We usually have intercourse with my short skirt pulled up while I'm sitting on his lap facing him. That's when he likes to put them on and smack my bottom.  E-Zone is a nipple suction stimulator with an adjustable controller.

9. Double Penetrating Vibrator: Both shafts are about 5 1/2 to 6 inches long. One shaft is a little less than an inch wide for anal insertion and the other is about 2 inches wide. This one has several speeds. We normally use this when I am performing oral sex or prostate milking. It makes the activity more pleasurable for both. This is also great to use alone. Please make sure that whenever anything is inserted into the anus that you have plenty of lubrication.

8. Ordinary Vibrator. I have a single anal vibrator and a single vibrator for my vagina. If I am having vaginal intercourse then I sometimes enjoy my anal vibrator as well. If I am having anal sex then I sometimes use the vaginal vibrator. I also enjoy using the vibrator on my husband’s penis, scrotum, and around his anus.

7. 3 Ring Cock and Ball Divider: This keeps the penis and the testicles away from the body. I can tighten, prolonging how long it takes my husband to reach an orgasm. I use this often when we watch some of his favorite porns. There are so many different kinds to use. We like the leather variety.

6. the Silicone Triple Orgasm Vibrating Cockring. This is great. The man puts this on like a cockring and then you sit on him or get in the missionary position. It also has two small vibrating shafts about 1/3 of an inch thick. One fits perfectly in the anus while the other stimulates the clitoris.  He loves it too because it stimulates his penis and testicles.

5. Pleasure Balls. I love them. I use them when I'm doing my kegel exercises, right before sex to get in the mood, and on long car trips. Weight inside the balls and the movement causes them to vibrate after they're in your vagina. I love to insert them into the vagina while having anal sex. It’s like double penetration because the wall of the rectum is pushed against the balls in the vagina while jiggling with the movement of anal penetration.

4. Vibrating Clitoral Sucker: If you like having your clitoris sucked then you’ll love this. This has a hands free remote. It also has a latex hand pump and suction cup for the clit sucker. I enjoy using this when we play tie up.

3. Clitoral Stimulator with straps: This is a mini vibrator that comfortably fits in the whole vulva area and stimulates the clit. It's so quiet that you can wear it in public without anybody knowing.

2. The Prostate Stimulator or Male G Spot Stimulator. We use the Aneros Helix for the internal massage or use your fingers (gloved).

1.The Anal Rotator. This toy doesn’t vibrate it just moves. The top part rotates in gyrating motion and it comes with a controller (5 speeds). It feels like a real penis. You can use it with or without a partner. It comes with a sturdy suction base and can be put on a hard surface so you can sit on it. I have used this with my Jack Rabbit vaginal Vibrator with clitoris stimulator. I have also used this with just my clitoris stimulator. Both ways gave me incredible orgasms.

The good thing about these sex toys is that they aren’t that expensive. Each toy can be purchased for under $20, except for the Prostate Stimulator($50). When using sex toys it's important to use them correctly so that you don’t injure your partner. Remember to always use an antibacterial toy cleaner before and after use.

Sex toys used to be thought of as kinky, perverted, and taboo, but things have changed. When I first got married I thought I'd never need to masturbate or use a vibrator. This was in the mid 80’s when you couldn't anonymously shop for sex toys online. Now it's easier than ever to search for all kinds of sexual aids without having to brave a visit to a “Dirty Book Store.” If you're new to the world of sex toys, here's a top ten list of a few of my favorites.

10. Nipple Clamps:


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