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Oracle of Ybor: Your now-married ex’s birthday is not an excuse to call and see how he’s doing
‘I hope your old love finds peace this year, and I hope that you do, too.’
Caroline DeBruhl
Caroline DeBruhl is a writer, tarot-reader, and wedding officiant living in Tampa. She follows The Dark Mother, Hekate, a primordial goddess of many things, including crossroads, ghosts, liminal spaces, as well as being the bringer of light.
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Oracle of Ybor: Your psychological wounds make you feel possessed
Nightmares can manifest as a “personal demon.”
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Oracle of Ybor: With so much injustice in the world, I am filled with rage
I am channeling my anger towards something more productive.
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Oracle of Ybor: My family supports me with money, but I still feel dismissed by them
And what do I do about my friend’s shady new accountant?
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Oracle of Ybor: Your restaurant is in the summer slump, and maybe you need a business partner
That might involve letting go of some power, but perhaps another set of eyes will help you get to calmer seas.
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Oracle of Ybor: I’m embarrassed to admit this, but I need to be the center of attention all the time
Everyone is the main character in their life, and sometimes, we have to be the supporting cast.
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Oracle of Ybor: When it comes to ICE raids, the cards tell us to take action
They don’t call for questions or debate.
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Oracle Of Ybor: The Two of Swords has something to say about the resentment you have for family
If that sword falls, it’ll be you who cuts them off.
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Oracle of Ybor: What you hear in your friend’s voice might not be depression but defeat
Respectfully, mind your own goddamn business.
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Oracle of Ybor: Leave the job and don’t go to grad school to impress your folks
Love isn’t all we need.
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Oracle Of Ybor: You’re retiring, but the Wheel of Fortune reminds us that nothing stays fixed
As you reflect on your old life, imagine the possibilities of the new.
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Oracle of Ybor: With friends like these, who needs friends?
Like all relationships, some friendships can turn, well, toxic.
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Oracle of Ybor: It feels like your pal is ghosting you, but remember that close friendships are often a long game
And go forth towards your cozy cafe con booknook, too.
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Oracle Of Ybor: My husband and I spent a lot of money on his green card, but now I’m thinking about divorce
Or he could buyout his contract.
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Oracle of Ybor: Go out and fix that injustice instead of reading about it on Reddit
You build community by showing up. Consistently.
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Oracle Of Ybor: I want to spend more time with my parent, but they don’t make it easy
I feel like I’m the only one making an effort.
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Oracle of Ybor: How can I get 2025 started with peace and progress?
And how do I break the cycle of my noisy Italian family.
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Oracle Of Ybor: Do the cards offer any hope ahead of Trump’s second term?
And how do I find love again in 2025?
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Oracle of Ybor: I’m visiting mom, but her horrible time management makes the holidays stressful
My siblings and I have tried talking to her, but she gets incredibly defensive.
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Oracle of Ybor: I got a job in another state, and I don’t know if I should go
What may help is to think about what each option—move or stay—offers and what you really need at this time.
