Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: I just found out my boyfriend had sex with my parents 10 years ago You’re not the first person whose parents were a little extra. by Dan Savage August 4, 2021February 21, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: My husband cheated and gave me crabs twice, but I still haven’t left him Also, who pays for Plan B when the condom breaks? by Dan Savage July 30, 2021April 29, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: Not asking your kink partner about their public social media shows tact and self control—so don’t Plus, my wife did ‘something’ to my best friend, and I’m not sure how I feel about it. by Dan Savage July 20, 2021April 16, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: When we reject people, it’s important to be clear, considerate and unambiguous, too But you should never be an emotional arsonist. by Dan Savage July 12, 2021July 4, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: Your son has never been kissed, but he might not be interested in sex at all, and that’s OK And what does being in ‘good working order’ mean anyway? by Dan Savage July 9, 2021May 6, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: A straight guy who likes dick, not dudes, is still straight Plus, some great insight on coming out when you’re ready. by Dan Savage July 1, 2021August 4, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: No one’s being exploited, so it’s perfectly fine for you to blow a load over your neighbor’s OnlyFans Also, should you kiss a friend after giving someone else a blowjob? by Dan Savage June 21, 2021April 2, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: You should probably disclose your herpes before joining that 50-person pandemic-era orgy Also, stop telling your girlfriend about your latest Reluctant Monogamists Anonymous meeting, dude. by Dan Savage June 11, 2021November 26, 2023
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: You’re not obligated to stay with controlling and demeaning partners, so dump the motherfuckers already Break up and run. by Dan Savage June 7, 2021December 16, 2024
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: Disclosing your stamina-killing stroke might actually be good for the bedroom Also, the olive oil I’m using as lube makes my dick skin peel off like sand. by Dan Savage June 4, 2021August 17, 2023
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: In really long-term relationships, things like familiarity, intimacy, and security can trump sexual exclusivity Also, ‘tinglehole’ is one word, not two. by Dan Savage May 28, 2021May 13, 2024
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: Sex is not a competition, so start thinking of your partner’s vibrator as a teammate, not opponent And yes, there’s a way to make a guy come faster during blowjobs. by Dan Savage May 20, 2021April 28, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: At some point, every gay man learns not to mess around with a friend’s drunk straight-identified boyfriend And how to balance your porn persona with who you are in real life. by Dan Savage May 10, 2021June 12, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: My husband dominates me at home, but I just found out he’s paid thousands to a ‘FinDom’ Also, you’re probably more attractive than you think you are. by Dan Savage May 3, 2021July 28, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: Intimate-but-sexless relationships exist, you just have to ask for them Plus, other quickies. by Dan Savage April 30, 2021April 2, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: Intermittent or ‘on-demand’ use of PrEP is highly effective for bi men hooking up outside of a monogamous relationship Also, asexual gays and cuckold gays are out there and they’re great, but they represent tiny minorities of an already tiny minority. by Dan Savage April 23, 2021June 1, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: I’m mad about a toxic ex-boyfriend who’s now dating a man, how do I confront him about the pain he caused? Also, how do I ask my ex if I’m the father of her child? by Dan Savage April 13, 2021April 29, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: You probably shouldn’t have told your girlfriend you cheated—here’s why It’s about the ‘burden of knowing,’ and now you can’t smoke pot without asking first. by Dan Savage April 8, 2021April 22, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: Masturbating to images of other folks isn’t cheating And what’s the right time to wait before having sex with someone anyway? by Dan Savage April 2, 2021August 5, 2025
Posted inNews & Views Savage Love: Having a mental health condition isn’t proof a person isn’t or can’t be in ‘good working order’ Plus more leftover questions from our latest livestream. by Dan Savage March 22, 2021August 17, 2023