As I walked through Caliente's parking lot a few weeks ago to a swingers party, I noticed a couple in their car. The guy patiently waited for the woman to down a beer. She was obviously using some liquid courage to either parade around naked or join in on a tryst with a group of swingers at the club. It made me recall the days when I would guzzle a bottle of Smirnoff Ice while in route to a swingers club. Normally I would drink two beforehand and feel really good and worry-free upon arrival.
Alcohol is as common as casual sex at swinger parties. Both sexes frequently need to lube up their inhibitions with liquor before they can take part in the real festivities. Five years ago I definitely needed
This article appears in Sep 23-29, 2010.